Musings from a Multipotentialite
Someone with diverse interests and creative pursuits. Multipotentialites thrive on exploring, learning, and mastering new skills. It is the gift of being a Renaissance Man/Woman.
By Vicky Lynne
Have you ever noticed that when someone yawns you immediately feel a yawn coming on? How about those moments of contagious laughter? I remember moments of laughter with my family and friends that went on so long that my cheeks hurt, I was crying, my stomach was cramping, and I thought we would never stop laughing.
Do you notice that when you are spending time with someone filled with doom and gloom you feel a bit blue? I suggest you pick a new color, after all there’s an entire rainbow. Have you ever cried simply because someone else was crying? Even if you had no idea why they were crying? Do you ever find yourself smiling when someone smiles at you? There is a correlation between your emotions and your facial expressions and a real smile is an emotional contagion.
So what is real? How do you differentiate between a real smile and a fake one? It’s all in the eyes, yes really it’s all in the eyes. The Duchenne Smile was first identified by French physician Guillaume Duchenne who discovered a clear anatomical difference between a real smile and a fake one. His research showed that a real smile activated not only the muscles that lift the corner of the mouth but the muscles around the eyes. You know the ones, those muscles that we lovingly call crows feet..so be proud if your crow’s feet are quite visible..it is a sign that you have had a long life filled with smiles.
Most often we associate a smile with first being happy, but did you know that if you are feeling down and you think of something that makes you smile, you now bring happiness to your day by first having the smile. Try this experiment, think of something that makes you smile, keep smiling and now change your thought to something sad and try to maintain your smile. If you are truly smiling and then think of something sad you can’t maintain that smile. Now, think of something that brings joy to you and try not to smile..not so easy is it?
Each of us have so many reason’s throughout our day to smile and if you can’t think of a reason just stop and think of all the things you have to be grateful for in your life. If you are still having a problem just look at the list of reasons to smile on this website and I bet you will come up with a few of your own.
Smiling improves your health and well-being. When you smile and feel the joy associated with a smile you can lower your blood pressure, reduce anxiety, increase positive energy, and enhance the life of those you meet throughout your day. A smile crosses language and cultural boundaries and is the best communication weapon you have and you carry it with you everywhere. Whoever may have said that the mouth is a very powerful weapon may have been speaking about what comes out of the mouth but I believe that the silent voice of our mouths is equally as important.
“Smile and the whole world smiles with you……”
No matter the emotion or the facial expression, it is undeniable that what is written on your face and is in your heart effects those around you. The more genuine the expression, the more effective it is, so if you think faking a smile is going to make someone’s day..forget it…if you really want to make someone’s day, keep it real. Make today the day that you unleash your inner smile guru!